“Wow!”
The efficiency wanted no analysis past the exclamation. Kurt Suzuki bounded out of the visiting clubhouse at Angel Stadium to meet up with his buddy.
In 2009, within the first begin of his first full main league season, the Angels’ pitcher threw six shutout innings towards Suzuki and the Oakland Athletics. On Staff USA, Suzuki had been his catcher.
Suzuki congratulated the pitcher, shared the exclamation and — as a result of that is what mates do — gave him a tough time.
Earlier than the solar rose, Nick Adenhart was useless. He was 22.
“I woke up the next morning to 10 text messages you don’t want to hear,” Suzuki mentioned.
A drunk driver had blown by a crimson gentle and right into a minivan stuffed with mates. He killed three of them, together with Adenhart. One survived: Jon Wilhite, who performed baseball at Cal State Fullerton with Suzuki.
Sixteen years later, a ceaselessly bond endures between Wilhite and Suzuki. When the Angels launched Suzuki as their new supervisor final month, Wilhite was within the viewers.
Their friendship is compelling. Their story is poignant. We’ll get to it, however first Suzuki ribs Wilhite for sporting lengthy pants on a sunny autumn day in Manhattan Seashore. Suzuki is sporting shorts and flip-flops.
“We’re by the beach, dude,” Suzuki laughs.
Suzuki eggs on Wilhite: Inform the story concerning the white go well with.
In 2004, Fullerton gained the Faculty World Collection, with Suzuki because the All-America catcher and Wilhite as a redshirt catcher. In 2005, the Titans visited the White Home.
“I didn’t own a suit,” Wilhite mentioned. “I went to the Men’s Wearhouse in Hawthorne, just by myself, and this guy sold me on a white suit.”
New Angels supervisor Kurt Suzuki, left, and basic supervisor Perry Minasian communicate to reporters at Angel Stadium final month. Jon Wilhite was within the viewers.
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On the day of the White Home go to, his teammates thought the white go well with was a joke. Pricey reader, it was not.
Wilhite stood consistent with his teammates, ready to fulfill President George W. Bush. Because the president shook Wilhite’s hand, he took a take a look at the go well with and deadpanned: “Bold move, son.”
Fullerton has gained 4 Faculty World Collection championships, greater than some other faculty in addition to USC, Louisiana State, Texas and Arizona State — elite by any commonplace, however frankly wonderful given the Titans’ standing as a financially challenged athletic program at a commuter faculty. The gamers believed in themselves, as a result of they might not rely on anybody else to consider in them.
“It was like a brotherhood,” Suzuki mentioned.
That drunk driver very practically killed Wilhite, too. You may get chills simply by saying out loud the medical time period for what occurred to him: inner decapitation.
UC Irvine surgeons put his cranium again atop his backbone. On the time, UCI reported, solely 4 different folks have been recognized to have recovered from that harm.
Wilhite was within the hospital for weeks, in rehabilitation for months. Suzuki, then in his second full main league season, raised greater than $50,000 for Wilhite’s restoration fund by tapping veterans for baseball memorabilia that could possibly be bought or auctioned.
“Luckily, with the money raised, I was able to take a year and get myself physically as good as I could be,” Wilhite mentioned, “before I went back to work.”
That cash was not essentially the most useful contribution Suzuki made towards Wilhite’s therapeutic.
When Wilhite completed his rehabilitation program, Suzuki was again in Southern California, within the midst of offseason exercises.
Hey, he informed Wilhite, come work out with me.
“This is a guy that’s a professional athlete getting ready for his next year,” Wilhite mentioned, “and I was struggling to walk.
“I showed up every single day, and I got stronger. That’s when I really made strides. I wasn’t just a patient. I felt like an athlete again.”
Even in these worst of occasions, Suzuki was not above ribbing Wilhite. For each of them, it felt, nicely, regular.
“He was still getting his balance back,” Suzuki mentioned. “I’m like, come on dude, don’t go falling on me or everybody’s going to be looking at us!”
Suzuki might have made a modest donation to Wilhite’s restoration fund. That may have been a stunning gesture.

Angels supervisor Kurt Suzuki, left, and Jon Wilhite have been teammates at Cal State Fullerton. “Would you just write your family member a check? No, you’re going to be there for him,” Suzuki mentioned of how he’s supported Wilhite because the accident.
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For Suzuki, that will not have been sufficient. The Titans have been household, and to today he remembers that Wilhite’s father attended follow nearly daily, sitting within the entrance row, sporting that trademark white bucket hat.
“Would you just write your family member a check?” Suzuki mentioned. “No, you’re going to be there for him.”
The Angels honor their finest pitcher every year with the Nick Adenhart Award. Suzuki can current it now, and share his recollections of Adenhart. Maybe Wilhite might be a part of Suzuki.
If he have been to do this, he would need to make certain to share his recollections of the opposite victims, too: Courtney Stewart, 20, a Fullerton classmate he described as sensible, enjoyable, and in no way scared to tease her ballplayer mates about their play; and Henry Pearson, 25, a legislation pupil and aspiring sports activities agent who Wilhite mentioned by no means took a second without any consideration.
We met at Marine Park in Manhattan Seashore, the place Pearson and Wilhite performed youth baseball, and the place a memorial reads: “On April 9, 2009, Henry Pearson, Courtney Stewart and Nick Adenhart were killed by a drunk driver. Jon Wilhite miraculously survived and recovered. They remain an inspiration to us all.”
Some days greater than others, Wilhite feels the miracle of survival, of prayer, of contemporary medication. I requested him how he explains what occurred to individuals who don’t already know.
“I usually don’t like to drop that bomb on people,” he mentioned. “I usually try to be vague.”
He is aware of he’s the fortunate one. He tries to keep in mind that daily, however his thoughts by no means drifts removed from the others.
“Three of the best people I know lost their life for a senseless act,” he mentioned, “people with such promise.”
Thanksgiving is upon us, so I requested Wilhite if something got here out of this horrific tragedy for which he might be grateful.
He paused. The grief would possibly by no means absolutely go. He was not about to pressure a solution.
However, after a minute or so, he talked of the relationships he had constructed with the households of Adenhart, Pearson and Stewart, and the baseball group that supported him, and the shut mates who stepped as much as assist him in his time of want.
“Like Kurt,” he mentioned.
