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'Huge Boys' Membership': Former Michigan State Police trooper says, 'They crucified me'

By Editorial Board Published July 18, 2025 28 Min Read
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'Huge Boys' Membership': Former Michigan State Police trooper says, 'They crucified me'

LANSING, Mich. (WLNS) – As former Michigan State Police trooper Megan Moryc sat earlier than Robert Cooney, chief choose of the 86th District Court docket in Grand Traverse County, on April 22, 2021, she was anticipating to obtain a probation order for her “no-contest” plea to 2 counts of assault and battery that stemmed from a drunken incident with fellow troopers.  

Photograph illustration. (WLNS)

In trade for her no-contest plea, Grand Traverse County Prosecutors had agreed to dismiss two counts of Prison Sexual Conduct 4th diploma. Assault and battery is a misdemeanor cost in Michigan. CSC 4 is taken into account a excessive misdemeanor and handled as a low-level felony by the justice system. 

Her lawyer, Marc Curtis, introduced the plea deal as a approach for Moryc to probably proceed her profession with MSP.  

“I told her that it could go either way, but it is the known versus the unknown, and she could go to trial on the two counts of CSC, lose in a jury trial, lose her job and face going to jail for a lot longer than she did,” Curtis instructed 6 Information. “Or, she could take the plea of the assault and battery, and not have two felony convictions, which would have caused her to immediately have lost her job, or have two misdemeanors after consulting with her union, that [led us to] believe would be able to keep her job. And that was a decision that she made.”  

However the plea deal didn’t work out. Moryc, who has been in a protracted battle to earn again her job, stated she was shocked when Decide Cooney rejected the settlement that may have prevented jail time and granted her probation whereas permitting her to proceed carrying a gun and serving as a regulation enforcement officer.  

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Cooney, Moryc stated, didn’t need the “liability” of Moryc on the highway with a gun and ordered her to serve 30 days in jail with no probation. She was to start her jail sentence the subsequent day. She was launched after 21 days behind bars.

The costs in opposition to Moryc stemmed from a drunken encounter amongst troopers attending a union gathering in Traverse Metropolis, when their banter and punching and grabbing become complaints filed in opposition to Moryc, complaints that authorized specialists have instructed 6 Information Investigates seemingly mustn’t have been greater than inside points.  

The investigation that adopted finally value Moryc, 40, a trooper since 2016, her job. It additionally led to an ongoing, practically five-year-long authorized tug-of-war.  

MSP stated she broke the regulation and violated coverage and that permitting her again on the power would pose a threat to her fellow troopers.  

She stated her job was taken from her due to intercourse discrimination and harassment.  

The 6 Information Investigates workforce, since August, has been investigating this dispute between Moryc and the MSP, reviewing a whole lot of pages of inside investigations, court docket filings, court docket opinions, emails and prosecutorial communications. The paperwork are introduced as quoted, together with spelling and grammatical errors. Moryc has sat for hours of on-camera interviews, however officers for the state of Michigan have declined to reply to particular questions from the 6 Information Investigates Staff.  

This dispute, which at one level reached the Michigan Supreme Court docket, is chronicled on this ongoing report by 6 Information Investigates a couple of sexualized “big boys’ club” on the Lakeview Submit of the Michigan State Police.  

MSP Lakeview Post shadow background 2The Michigan State Police Lakeview Submit in Lakeview, Mich. (WLNS)

A reopened investigation 

Curtis instructed 6 Information the skilled relationship between Moryc and him didn’t have a “favorable ending.”  He stated he believed the state’s high regulation enforcement company was “messing” along with her. 

And that battle with MSP was simply getting began.

Moryc had thought serving jail time could be the top of the disaster and that she would quickly be again on the highway. MSP officers had a unique perspective.  

The executive investigation by the Skilled Requirements Part, or PSS, generally known as inside affairs, was reignited shortly after her sentencing.  

Below MSP union contract guidelines, she needed to have a chance to offer an interview to investigators, which she did. PSS beneficial she be terminated from the division. 

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The investigation and charging allegations despatched to Moryc on July 23, 2021, said the investigation had decided she had dedicated two assault and battery fees and two fees of prison sexual conduct that had been fourth-degree crimes. 

Capt. Dale Hinz, administrative listening to commander of the MSP sixth District, which incorporates the Lakeview Submit, to which Moryc had been assigned, agreed with the executive suggestions of the investigators that Moryc must be terminated, efficient instantly. 

Dale HinzCapt. Dale Hinz (Photograph: Michigan State Police)

“They crucified me over this, and it’s been super traumatic,” Moryc stated.  

Arbitrator’s findings  

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Following the choice by Hinz, Moryc was ready, with union help, to file a grievance. An arbitration listening to was held.  

Of their argument for the arbitration, attorneys from the workplace of the Legal professional Basic centered on the 2 prison sexual conduct fees that had been put aside in Moryc’s plea association with the Grand Traverse County Prosecutor’s Workplace. Arbitrator Kathleen Opperwall didn’t see it their approach.

Opperwall analyzed the allegations of prison sexual conduct fourth diploma in opposition to Moryc primarily based on the usual of “clear and convincing evidence.” It’s a decrease normal than could be crucial in a prison case, which requires proof “beyond a reasonable doubt.”  She challenged the testimony of Det. Lt Mark Harris from the MSP seventh District, who investigated the prison case, in addition to sixth District Commander Dale Hinz, of their makes an attempt to make a comparability between a male trooper accused of CSC 4 and Moryc, a feminine trooper. 

mark harrisDet. First Lt. Mark Harris (Photograph: Michigan State Police)

Opperwall famous that though voluntary intoxication will not be a protection for prison actions, Moryc’s data of her intoxication was necessary to the evaluation.

“I am not prepared to conclude that her actions met the definition of CSC 4th,” Opperwall wrote in her choice, which was issued Feb. 3, 2022.  

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Opperwall additionally challenged the gender-related claims of troopers and MSP leaders main as much as their selections to analyze, refer them for prison prosecution and administratively act in opposition to Moryc.  

“Several of the troopers stated in their interviews that they thought if a male trooper had assaulted several female troopers, it would be treated differently,” Opperwall wrote.”  “Lt. Harris’ report consists of that, ‘[Trooper Patrick] Arena [a victim in the criminal case against Moryc] felt as men this was laughed off, but if a man had done this to a woman, they would be locked up with no bond. He didn’t suppose Moryc ought to get a free move on this.’ 

“Lt. Harris’ report additionally consists of Tpr. [Elie] Awad [another of the victims in the criminal investigation] said: ‘He does feel like something should be done and it wouldn’t be tolerated if a person did this to a lady.’ This was additionally a consider Capt. Hinz’ pondering, per his testimony on the listening to.  

“The issue at this point is not whether the conduct should be tolerated or Tpr. Moryc should be given a free pass. The issue is whether discipline less than termination of employment is appropriate. She has not gotten a ‘free pass;’ she was criminally charged, and spent time in jail. Her situation should be evaluated on its own facts, rather than trying to imagine if the genders were reversed and hypothesizing what the penalty might be. It is not always possible or realistic to reverse the genders without changing the context and impact of what occurred.”  

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Trooper Elie Awad (Photograph: Michigan State Police)

Patrick Arena

Trooper Patrick Area (Photograph: Michigan State Police)

Opperwall dominated Moryc was due progressive self-discipline, not termination. She ordered that Moryc be thought of to have served an unpaid suspension from Jan. 20, 2021, when she was suspended with out pay when prison fees had been licensed, by means of Could 31, 2021. The MSP was ordered that her wage be reinstated and “made whole” starting June 1, 2021, when she was to be reinstated to lively responsibility.

That by no means occurred to the extent that Opperwall had supposed.

The authorized processes 

The MSP didn’t settle for Opperwall’s ruling and challenged it in Ingham County Circuit Court docket. After a listening to in July 2022, Decide James Jamo dominated Opperwall had exceeded her authority and vacated her choice. That ruling was issued on Sept. 19, 2022.  

Moryc filed an attraction with the Michigan Court docket of Appeals. In a unanimous opinion printed Dec. 28, 2023, a 3-judge panel reinstated the arbitrator’s choice, ruling she had not exceeded her authority. By issuing the choice as “published,” the opinion grew to become binding case regulation for the state, until the opinion was to be overturned by the Michigan Supreme Court docket.  

On Feb. 8, 2024 – the final day MSP’s attorneys might attraction that call – the Workplace of the Legal professional Basic requested the Michigan Supreme Court docket to reverse that call. On Sept. 18, 2024, the Michigan Supreme Court docket declined to take up the attraction, upholding the Court docket of Appeals choice and the arbitrator’s choice.

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Michigan Supreme Court docket order in MorycDownload

That ruling required the MSP to reinstate Moryc as a trooper and restore her pay relationship again to June 1, 2021 – greater than three years of wage and advantages, which might be roughly $61,000 a 12 months in 2021, $69,000 a 12 months in 2022 and $71,000 in 2023.  

The Michigan Division of Treasury confirmed a examine was reduce for Moryc this previous Could – one other 9 months after the Supreme Court docket’s choice – however the 6 Information Investigates workforce has discovered that it was for tens of hundreds of {dollars} lower than the years of again pay ought to complete. Not solely did division officers deduct the sum of money she made whereas working at an out of doors place of employment whereas the case was being heard, additionally they deducted practically $9,000 in medical insurance premiums for insurance coverage she by no means acquired. 

Not so quick

After the Supreme Court docket’s motion, Moryc had acquired orders on Sept. 26, 2024, to report back to MSP Headquarters in Lansing on Oct. 2 to fill out paperwork and take part in orientation in preparation for returning to full responsibility.  

As Moryc was ending her payroll paperwork that day, she says First Lt. Brian Buege, commander of the MSP Recruiting and Choice Part, joined her and a consultant from Human Sources on the desk the place she was working.  

“So, the ink’s not even dry on the signatures on all these sheets, and he [Buege] takes me to get fingerprinted and goes, ‘We have to – I want to get a private room,’” Moryc instructed 6 Information. “Like, OK.”  

A convention room was discovered, they usually went in, she stated.  

“I’ve been telling him how I know that people in command, especially in internal affairs, doesn’t like me. You know? They hate me and stuff like that,” Moryc stated. “And he goes, ‘Well, the reporting just needs to stop.’” 

She recalled pondering, “OK, translation being, I made complaints about, you know, the sergeant and the IA investigator who set me up in jail like that? The discrimination that I had faced that I did actually make an official report about it all. It was a six-page memo I typed up of specific incidences of misogyny. Discrimination. How I’ve been treated. What had been said to me at the post, which implicated multiple people, including the sergeant.”  

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And that’s when she was handed a chunk of paper, she stated.  “I am placed on investigatory suspension with pay, effective immediately,” she stated. “The ink wasn’t even dry on my financial paperwork, and they served me a suspension and walked me out.”

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Moryc was ordered to make herself out there to command and MSP each Monday by means of Friday between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m., she stated. A suspension letter from 2020, when Moryc was dealing with accusations of bodily and sexual assaults by fellow troopers, didn’t embrace the same availability requirement.

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Buege didn’t reply to messages left on his work voicemail. 

The perjury cost 

The doc additionally knowledgeable Moryc she was underneath investigation for allegedly mendacity whereas underneath oath throughout a divorce continuing involving her former boyfriend, former MSP Trooper Trevin Antcliff.

Trevin AntcliffMichigan State Police Trooper Trevin S. Antcliff. (Photograph courtesy MSP. WLNS)

He had confronted a felony cost for perjury associated to his testimony in a 2018 listening to in his divorce. Newaygo County prosecutors delayed issuing a warrant and finally agreed to not cost Antcliff in trade for his responsible plea in a home violence case in Montcalm County. That case was initiated in December 2023.  

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The problem with each Moryc and Antcliff associated to how they outlined their private relationship whereas testifying within the listening to. 

Paperwork obtained by the 6 Information Investigates workforce reveal the Newaygo County Prosecutor’s Workplace declined to cost Moryc with perjury. The notes point out the prosecutors didn’t consider there was sufficient proof to show the allegation past an affordable doubt to a jury. The workplace was ready to cost Antcliff with felony perjury, nonetheless. 

However MSP guidelines and laws permit troopers to be punished for alleged crimes, even when fees usually are not introduced.  

Moryc has vehemently denied that she lied underneath oath within the continuing. However the inside investigation decided she had lied. A disciplinary committee fired her on Feb. 13. She has filed a grievance difficult her termination. The grievance is at the moment working by means of the state arbitration course of along with her union. 

Regardless of the suspension order from Oct. 2, Moryc was required to undergo a drug screening that very same day. 

A brand new investigation

Days after submitting to a drug screening on Oct. 2, Moryc stated she acquired a cellphone name from a Pennsylvania cellphone quantity. On the opposite finish was Dr. Suzanne Steele, senior medical reviewer for Vault Workforce Screening. 

Moryc stated Steele knowledgeable her she was conducting a “medical Miranda” associated to reviewing her drug screening, suggesting Moryc had been learn her constitutional rights.  

Moryc was conscious {that a} treatment she was prescribed seemingly would set off alarms within the screening middle, because it had when she first joined MSP. In 2016, she merely took an image of a prescription bottle, emailed it to the screening service, and that was the top of it.  

Steele was “hostile” along with her, Moryc stated, delving into medical circumstances unrelated to her prescription. This set off “red flags,” Moryc stated.  

“‘Whoa, what’s going on here?’” she remembers asking Steele. “I’m like all that different stuff I disclosed to you is protected underneath HIPAA, however she’s like, ‘Well, I read you a medical Miranda. So, basically, it’s not.’  

“I said, ‘Why do you need this information anyways?’ And she goes, ‘Well, part of what I do too is provide a safety analysis, and if I think there’s something you’re on that poses a safety risk, I need to report that to the department.’”  

Moryc pushed again, threatening to get her civil rights lawyer concerned earlier than Steele relented and requested the trooper to ship an image of the prescription bottle to her e-mail deal with.  

‘Medical Miranda’  

Lance Gable is a professor of regulation at Wayne State College who focuses on medical regulation. 6 Information requested him about what Steele known as a “medical Miranda.”  “I’m not familiar with the ‘medical Miranda’ investigation either,” Gable stated on Oct. 11. 

lance gableLance Gable, professor of regulation at Wayne State College. (Photograph: Wayne State College)

6 Information contacted a number of physicians and attorneys in Michigan on background and requested about “medical Miranda” as properly. None stated that they had heard of it within the context of drug testing and employment.  

Shanon BannerMichigan State Police Communications Director Shanon Banner. (Courtesy Photograph, MSP. WLNS)

MSP spokesperson Shanon Banner was requested to clarify the “medical Miranda” as properly.  “I’m unable to explain to you something that a physician may have told to someone else,” Banner wrote in an e-mail. “I think you would need to talk with the doctor to understand that.”  

The 6 Information Investigates workforce reached out to Steele by means of her employer, Vault, an organization that conducts office medical testing and contracts with the MSP to do drug testing, however there was no response.

Moryc has not been requested to finish one other drug screening, and the problem has not been raised since.    

The license subject 

On Oct. 31, 2024, Moryc was in Lansing for 2 administrative interviews involving investigations. The primary was the perjury investigation. The second was an allegation that she had filed her gender discrimination grievance with MSP officers to retaliate in opposition to Sgt. Robert Metivier for reporting incidents in Grand Traverse County that resulted in prison fees that despatched her to jail on a plea deal.

Robert MetivierSgt. Robert Metivier. (Photograph: Michigan State Police)

On April 3, 2024, Moryc filed a proper grievance with the Michigan Division of Civil Rights, alleging she had been subjected to illegal discrimination primarily based on her gender. However MDCR investigators dismissed her grievance as a result of she had filed a lawsuit in Eaton County Circuit Court docket that the division decided lined all of her claims.  

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That swimsuit, filed June 28, 2024, by lawyer Patrick O’Keefe, alleges the Michigan State Police violated the Michigan Elliott-Larsen Civil Rights Act by means of gender discrimination in addition to retaliation. The case is ongoing.  

Metivier already had a rocky relationship with Moryc when he filed the grievance on Oct. 13, 2020. She had accused him, unofficially, of discrimination in opposition to her primarily based on her gender in selections associated to coaching to turn into an proof technician and having to attend outdoors a home violence scene whereas Metivier and two different male troopers made entry.  

Each Metivier and Moryc stated the sergeant defined his choice that day to attend an extra three minutes to enter the scene and confront a home violence suspect as a result of “there’s nothing more intimidating than three very large individuals coming at you.”  

Metivier’s grievance was dismissed as unfounded, however Moryc is dealing with the total wrath of the MSP over allegations she dedicated perjury.  

Regardless of being ordered to reinstate Moryc as a trooper with again pay by an arbitrator, MSP was nonetheless preventing her reinstatement and what, if something, she must be paid.  

In a listening to on Dec. 18 in Ingham County Circuit Court docket, Assistant Legal professional Basic Mary Waddell argued that Moryc is again on the state of Michigan payroll – and has been since Oct. 2 – however can’t be rehired as a Michigan State Trooper.  

That listening to was earlier than Jamo, the identical choose whose arbitration opinion in opposition to Moryc two years earlier had been overturned by the courts.

“She cannot legally be reinstated to an MSP trooper position because she lost her MCOLES certification,” Wardell instructed Jamo.  

MCOLES is an acronym for the Michigan Fee on Regulation Enforcement Requirements. It’s the state company that licenses all regulation enforcement brokers in Michigan.  

Timothy Dlugos, an lawyer representing the Michigan State Police Trooper Affiliation, the union for MSP troopers, challenged that in his arguments. “Her MCOLES license only lapsed because of the dilatory action of having to go through the appeal process here,” Dlugos instructed Jamo. “It lapses after two years of inactivity. At the time she was ordered back to work by the arbitrator, her MCOLES license hadn’t lapsed.”  

On Dec. 20, Jamo ordered the enforcement of the arbitration award and required the state to pay among the authorized charges incurred by the union in its protection of Moryc.

Then, only a week into 2025, Moryc sat earlier than an administration panel that once more would contemplate firing her for the alleged perjury. A choice was delayed on Jan. 7, an surprising transfer by MSP administration and command workers. The ultimate choice to fireplace her once more got here on Feb. 13, with out additional dialogue. That continues to be underneath attraction.

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Her civil fits for retaliation and gender discrimination proceed, whilst a choose has dominated some complaints had been filed too late, and Moryc has since employed East Lansing civil rights lawyer Liz Abdnour and entered an look in Eaton County Circuit Court docket on July 8 of this 12 months.

“It’s not the shining example that they feed you to try to get you recruited as a woman,” Moryc stated. “They just want us for numbers to keep them off federal oversight, which I hope they have again because they’re too powerful. They’re too set in their ways of thinking. They can do no wrong – and there’s wrong done all the time, and women aren’t safe in the department.”  

She stated the misogyny of the division she noticed is ongoing and pervasive.   

“It’s not being solved. It’s just being covered up. And I feel like the reasons they’ve been attacking me so much is because they try – they want to beat me down and they want to destroy my reputation. To destroy me in every way.” 

6 Information Digital Content material Supervisor Duncan Phenix contributed to this report.

HELP IS AVAILABLE

For those who or somebody you already know is experiencing home or sexual violence, there’s assist.

In case you are in fast hazard, name 911 or your native regulation enforcement company. 

For help associated to home violence, name:  1-800-799-7233

For help associated to sexual assault, name: 800-656-HOPE (4673)

Learn this sequence so as:

Discontent within the Michigan State Police

‘Wolf in the hen house’

‘I never wanted to cheat on my husband’

The ‘womanizer’

‘An excessive amount of room within the regulation … to discriminate’ 

Ceaselessly Requested Questions

‘The degradation of girls’

‘Gender discrimination and harassment, together with sexual’

Former Michigan State Police trooper says it ‘went too far’

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